How Do I Tell My Employer I’m an Addict?

By |Published On: December 6th, 2012|Categories: Articles|

For some people the main obstacle keeping them from entering addiction rehab is their job.  How do they tell their boss? What do they say to co-workers?  Will they be fired? Fortunately the answers are often easier than they think.  At St. Joseph Institute, we take care of most communication with the employer.

For those people who work in an organization with more than 50 employees and have been employed a year or more, their job is well protected.  The Family Medical Leave Act (FMLA) provides up to 12 weeks of leave for medical reasons while protecting your job and your confidentiality. The process is simple.  We call the Human Resources department on your behalf, advise that you need to take medical leave and request the paperwork.  Discussions with the HR staff are protected by confidentiality laws and very few personal details are disclosed.  The HR staff is directed to inform your supervisor that you are “taking medical leave” and no more information is disclosed.  A government form is completed and leave is granted.

Employee stressed about telling boss he's an addictIn larger organizations, the process is even more confidential because they often have an Employee Assistance Plan (EAP) which manages these requests.  We communicate directly with the EAP, and the employer receives no confidential information. The same process is used when applying for short term disability.  Confidential information never goes beyond the HR staff and employment is well protected.

In smaller organizations, or when an individual has been employed for less than one year, a discussion needs to take place with the person in the organization responsible for HR.  We secure a commitment to keep the information confidential before we disclose the employee’s name.  As with FMLA, supervisors and colleagues should not hear more than the statement “they are on medical leave.”  There is never an obligation to disclose more information to colleagues or supervisors unless by choice.

We have found that employers are very supportive of people seeking help to improve their lives and get well.  In our experience, employers will often go the extra mile to provide benefits and support that exceed the written contracts.

The bottom line: don’t let job concerns prevent you from getting the help you need.  Getting caught using on the job or performing below expectations is where the real trouble lies.  Take the initiative to start treatment.  We will take care of the paperwork.